So her side of the bed is still made, her night stand empty of those magazines and her cell phone charger. Take out meals and lonely late night television not cutting the mustard anymore? Of course, if you feel that the emotional distance between you and her is greater than you’d like, than you need to take steps NOW to get her back.
It’s not rocket science but it is a subtle reframing of emotions to put it simply. There is a simple tested and proven method that works in all situations but it most certainly works best and most efficiently when as little time as possibly has gone by since the initial split or last meaningful contact. Watch the video to learn more about this limited window of opportunity you have to get your ex girlfriend back.
We’re assuming that you’ve already thought about the relationship a great deal, about what went wrong, about whose fault it is for whatever, and whether or not you really want her back. If you haven’t thought long and hard about those things than this link is not for you. You’ve got some figuring to do Compadre.
One of the first things you’ll need to work on is letting go of the hurt you’re holding onto in regards your relationship with her. This is essential is extremely healthy for you and for the future relationship. Does this mean you have to instantly forgive her for all of her past transgressions? Absolutely not. That will come with time. It just means that you need to reframe your emotional point of view. This is easier to do than it probably sounds. Your brain is more than likely trying to come up with reasons why things didn’t work, over analyzing every bit of interaction. That’s perfectly normal but it is also in the past and doesn’t concern us now. Not if you really want to win her back. Not to sound hokey but this is the plain truth: you have to let go and love yourself before you can ever truly love somebody else. And if you really love her than you no doubt recognize she is the kind of person worthy of this kind of love.
You will have to successfully resolve (or at least make peace with) these love emotions before you are ready to approach her about getting back together. This process is much simpler than you think and this link will show just how. It’s a revolutionary of rethinking (or reframing) what the relationship means to you and also to her, and focusing your thoughts and energies on the positives.